[In this COMMUNICATES series just know you are the Main Character.]

In the COMMUNICATES Happily Ever After, the eleventh component we’re going to explore is Energy Of Words.

If you’re into reading or telling stories you know that the main characters can say words that can either uplift or trigger the main characters and other characters in the stories.

Encountering different people and situations isn’t always easy and so for you, as the main character you will undoubtedly say words that might either uplift or trigger people the wrong way by what you said.

That is just part of being human and having human experiences.

Words in general are neutral, but based upon your feelings and experiences some words can either uplift or trigger you.

What do you do when a word that was said triggered you the wrong way?

Here’s an example to illustrate my point, the word decision and choice both mean the same thing. However, you might feel that the word choice feels more open and expansive while the word decision may feel more constricting and final because you’re thinking about making the final decision.

When you make the final decision, it might mean never turning back and leading you to think what happens if I make the wrong decision and I can’t turn back. I can’t undo the decision I made.

When you use the word choice you may feel more open because it doesn’t matter if you make the wrong choice, after all there are more choices, you can choose from. If one doesn’t work out, you can still have other choices you can choose from.

Magic phrases that will lead to happily ever after…

 

Magic phrase: Words that trigger you or make you feel stuck, replace them with words that resonate and align with you.

In the illustration I provided, you would replace the word ‘decide’ or ‘decision’ with the word ‘choice’ to help uplift you and empower rather than making you feel stuck.

If the word ‘choice’ feels too open leaving you not knowing which one to choose and you’re stuck with too many choices and indecision, then find a different word that will uplift you so you can make move forward.

It’s all about finding and using the words when you speak or replacing it with words you hear that will uplift you, you’re not triggered, and it doesn’t feel hard or difficult.

As a main character in your story, you can replace words that you hear that may trigger you with words that uplift and empower you that will lead you to your happily ever after.