In the COMMUNICATES Happily Ever After, the twelfth component we’re going to explore is Styles.
If you’re into reading or telling stories you know that the main characters have their own unique personalities and styles by the way they dress, act, and this includes communication styles too.
Encountering different people and situations isn’t always easy and so for you, as the main character you will have your own unique style and that means you have your own unique communication style.
That is just part of being human and having human experiences.
You have your own unique personality and communication style and so does everyone else.
Some people communicate through hearing, seeing, thinking, and/or sensing and touching.
Some people are fireball, nurturer, diplomatic, and/or humorous communicator.
In some situations, someone’s personality may not go well with your personality, the same can happen with communication style.
Someone’s communication style may not go well with your personality and communication style.
What do you do when a person’s communication style doesn’t go well your personality and communication style?
Magic phrases that will lead to happily ever after…
Magic phrase: In your mind, acknowledge It’s cool that we all have our own unique communication style, and appreciate each communication style. You can say something like “I appreciate your unique communication style.”
You don’t need to explain any further. You realize that everyone has his or her own unique personality and communication style. Everyone has his or her own personality and not every personality gets along and the same thing can be said with communication styles.
As a main character in your story, you can embrace the differences and appreciate the person for being he or she is just like you’re being who you are, so thank the person for helping you to grow and become a better version of yourself through your communication that lead you to your happily ever after.
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